Wellness Retreat at Home

So I’ve been wanting to go to a wellness retreat for a few months now.  However, they are quite pricey.  I get that most of them are all inclusive, but the cheapest one I found was in the $800s per night if you go during the week. 

I’m not a frugal person at all, but it just cost way too much to go to a wellness retreat.  How can I relax and enjoy myself knowing I’m paying between $1,000 to $2,500 per night?  And that doesn’t include a plane ticket to fly to the retreat…

Don’t get me wrong, there are retreats outside of the U.S that are more affordable, but you’ll have to fly at minimum 10 hours to get there. 

For now, I’ll take a weekend and create my own wellness retreat at home.  You can do the same. 

Below are the items you will need to create your at home wellness retreat:

  1. Candles: (preferably soy) with the scents eucalyptus, ginger, lavender, sage, white…you see where I’m going
  2. Robe:  a good wellness retreat is not complete without this essential item
  3. Water: not just plain water…water with lemon, cucumbers, ginger or fruits…basically infused water
  4. Your tub and/or shower:  If you have a tub with jets, perfect.  If not, it’s ok.  A regular tub is perfect to fill with very warm water.  You want to feel like you’re in a sauna.  Add eucalyptus to the water.  If you only have a shower, you can add a eucalyptus tablet or spray the shower with the eucalyptus spray.  Pure zen
  5. Portable sauna (optional):  so I don’t know if you’ve seen the portable saunas that can go inside your homes.  My husband bought us one and it is amazing.  You can purchase one anywhere between $100- $200.  Definitely worth the price.
  6. Music: You want to listen to relaxation music.  You want music that puts you in complete tranquility
  7. Facial mask:  I always feel relaxed with a nice facial.  Get a facial mask, lay back and relax.
  8. No phones:  section out your time and tell your family and friends not to disturb you, as you will be ignoring your phone.  No scrolling on social media.  Just you time. 
  9. Meditation: take a few minutes to meditate.  Do a breathing exercise
  10. And lastly, you need some healthy snacks.  Just like at the wellness retreat, you can get salads, smoothies, fresh juice, fruits, etc. 

Now this isn’t a luxury wellness retreat, but it will definitely help to relax you. Sometimes you just need to block out a few hours to yourself.  Me time! 

Infusion Waters
Portable Sauna
Candle

When It’s time to Let Go…

Life takes you in so many different directions, but the one stability you can always count on is family?  But is that really true?  What happens when the people you love and sacrifice for turns out to be your worst enemy? 

Let’s be clear, when I say family, I’m not talking about those family members that you don’t have a relationship with.  Not those family members you see only during family occasions.  I’m talking about those family members that you grew up with.  The ones that you talk to all the time. The ones you would drop everything for just to do things to please them. You would give them your last dollar or your last plate of food if you had to.  You get the gist…

What happens when you finally realize that these family members are self-absorbed?  Your happiness means absolutely nothing to them.  They are only concerned about their own.  But all your life, you’ve done nothing but try to please them and get their love.  Then, as you get older and want some happiness in your life, they start badmouthing you.  You go through the motions and try to overlook it…

My question is, when is enough… enough?  When do you finally say you’re done? Do you confront the person or persons?  Or do you just walk away?

Food for thought…