Happy birthday in Heaven to my Daddy ❤️

Happy birthday in heaven to my amazing daddy.  My dad would have been 72 years old today.  I would have been calling him on the phone to say, “Happy birthday young man.” That was our thing.  I would call him young man every birthday and every time he would cut his hair. 

Can you believe this video was taken a year before he passed away?  I don’t know what made me record this video of my dad and little brother building my shed in the backyard.  I never record anything he did around my house and believe me, he did a lot.  It’s just ironic that something told me to record that moment and I’m glad I did.  I would have never thought in a million years that a year later he would be gone.  Anyway, no sadness today.  Just sharing a beautiful memory of my dad being a dad ❤️

Happy birthday daddy.  I love you always and forever!

Blogmas Day 7: It’s my birthday 🎂

Happy birthday to me 🥳.  It was important to me to get back to being me.  I set a goal to be back at a certain weight by my birthday and I’m so proud of myself that I did it! Yay me!

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After my dad passed away, I began to comfort eat and gained about 20 pounds.  Many people said the extra weight looked good on me, but I personally did not feel comfortable.  When I got engaged, I lost 15 pounds by the time I got married.  I actually felt comfortable even with the still extra 5 pounds.  Then our fur baby passed away over a year ago and I became sad again, amongst other things.  I gained back the 10 pounds.  I really became unhappy with my body.  This was the heaviest I ever been in my life.  I was lonely in the house, as there was no more Wally.  My husband was working those long shifts as a nurse.  So all I did was work.  And my commute to work was long and stressful. By the time I arrived home, the first thing I would do is get a snack because I was starving.  I would eat late because I wanted to eat dinner with my husband.


So my husband hearing me complain about my weight suggested I rejoin the gym mainly to get out of the house. I did and that started my journey back to becoming me again…
Btw, this is definitely a new me.  I would have never posted a picture of myself in a bikini.  Another… Yay Me!

Blogmas Day 2: My Christmas Wish List…

So I had to think about what I want for Christmas and it wasn’t hard at all.

After losing my dad and my Fur baby, Wally, I think so differently now.  Back in the day my wish list would have consisted of some type of designer bag and shoes.  Don’t get me wrong, I still love nice things, but my focus is on more important things in life.

My Christmas wish list:

  1. Get pregnant and have a healthy pregnancy for me and baby
  2. Make myself a priority
  3. Have a happy family life
  4. Reopen my online jewelry boutique
  5. Be successful

Those are my 5 Christmas wishes.  I don’t need all the superficial things that makes me happy in the moment.  I want a gift that can last for a lifetime…